How to Prevent Breastfeeding Pain: Master the Right Latch Technique

Preparing for breastfeeding during pregnancy can make your postpartum journey smoother. After birth, you’ll be nursing your baby 8–12 times a day, and if your technique isn’t right, you might experience significant discomfort. Proper latch technique is key to a successful breastfeeding experience. Today, let’s explore how to help your baby latch correctly and avoid painful breastfeeding.

Why Is Proper Latch Technique Important?

Incorrect latch technique can cause intense nipple pain, sometimes even worse than labor pain! Not only that, but if your baby doesn’t latch properly, they won’t get enough milk, and your breasts won’t be stimulated to produce more. Babies aren’t born knowing how to latch correctly; this is something you’ll need to learn and practice together. Mastering this technique will make feeding smoother and less painful.

What Does a Good Latch Look Like?

A proper latch should look like this: your baby’s mouth is wide open, covering the nipple and most of the areola. Their lips should be flanged out like a fish, and they should be sucking rhythmically. This positioning allows the nipple to sit comfortably in your baby’s mouth, reducing friction and pain.

In a poor latch, the baby only takes in the nipple or a small part of the areola, which can lead to nipple pain and make it difficult for the baby to get enough milk.

Steps to Help Your Baby Latch Correctly

  1. Positioning: Hold your baby close to your breast with one hand. With the other hand, form a C-shape around your breast, placing your thumb above the nipple and areola and your index finger below.

  2. Encourage a Wide Open Mouth: Use your nipple to gently brush against your baby’s upper lip until they open their mouth wide, almost like they’re yawning.

  3. Get a Deep Latch: Ensure that your baby’s chin touches your breast first, and then guide them to latch from the bottom up, taking in the nipple and most of the areola.

  4. Check the Lips: Your baby’s lips should be flanged outward, like a fish’s lips, with their mouth sealed snugly around the areola.

  5. Check Breathing: Make sure your baby’s nose is clear and not pressed against the breast to allow them to breathe easily.

Important Tips to Keep in Mind

  • Avoid Forcing Baby's Head: Don’t push your baby’s head onto the breast or forcefully insert the nipple. Instead, stimulate them to open their mouth and latch on naturally.

  • It’s Okay If They Don’t Take the Entire Areola: The baby doesn’t need to take in the entire areola; covering most of it is sufficient.

  • Consider Using a Nursing Pillow: A nursing pillow can help you and your baby stay comfortable and maintain the right position.

How to Know If the Latch Is Correct

You can tell the latch is good if you notice the following signs:

  • Your baby’s cheeks are rounded and full while nursing, and you can hear soft swallowing sounds.
  • After nursing, your nipple remains round and uncompressed.
  • You feel a gentle pulling sensation but no pain.

Signs of an improper latch include:

  • Sharp nipple pain while nursing.
  • Your baby’s cheeks appear sunken, and there is a clicking sound as they nurse, with minimal swallowing.
  • After nursing, your nipple appears flattened or misshaped.

If you notice these signs of a poor latch, gently release the latch by placing a finger in the corner of your baby’s mouth and trying again.

What If It’s Still Difficult?

In the beginning, your baby may need multiple tries to master the correct latch. With patience and practice, they’ll get better at it. If you continue to feel pain or discomfort even after multiple attempts, don’t hesitate to seek help. Many hospitals offer lactation consulting services or breastfeeding hotlines where you can get professional guidance.


Learning the proper latch technique before giving birth can prevent painful breastfeeding and make the journey more enjoyable. By following the correct steps, you can help your baby achieve a deep, comfortable latch that minimizes nipple pain and ensures they’re getting enough milk. Remember, it may take a bit of time and practice, but with patience, you’ll build a positive breastfeeding experience together. Enjoy this special bonding time with your baby!

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