Labor and delivery can be an exciting yet nerve-wracking experience for many expecting mothers. While you may have read about the joys of holding your baby for the first time, you may not be as prepared for the less glamorous aspects of childbirth. Understanding and preparing for these situations can help ease your anxiety and make the experience less overwhelming. Here are 6 common, yet embarrassing, moments you may face during labor.
1. Going Bare
Whether you are having a vaginal birth or a C-section, it’s likely that you will need to be exposed from the waist down during parts of your delivery. This may feel awkward, especially if you’re not expecting it.
- Vaginal Birth: As you wait in the labor room, you may be required to undergo internal exams, which means you might be asked to remove your lower garments or wear just a hospital gown. Don’t worry—it’s normal, and your comfort is a priority.
- C-Section: In preparation for surgery, you’ll be asked to remove your underwear and wear surgical garments. While it may feel uncomfortable at first, the medical staff is there to ensure your safety.
2. Shaving Down Below: The 'Prep' for Delivery
Before labor, many hospitals will perform a procedure known as "prepping" or "shaving." This is done to reduce the risk of infection and ensure the area is clean during delivery. Though it might feel a little awkward, it’s a standard procedure, and most expectant moms don’t even notice it happening.
- Vaginal Birth: Healthcare providers will shave the area near your vagina and perform a quick cleaning to prevent infection during delivery.
- C-Section: In preparation for surgery, a similar process will occur to ensure the area is sterile.
3. Catheter Use (It’s Not As Bad As You Think)
While a catheter is often used during a C-section, many vaginal birth moms also receive a catheter to ensure their bladder remains empty. The insertion of the catheter might seem uncomfortable, but it’s necessary for a smooth delivery.
- Vaginal Birth: If your bladder becomes full, it can affect the progress of labor, so your healthcare provider may use a catheter for emptying. Most of the time, it’s a temporary procedure and doesn’t cause discomfort after it's inserted.
- C-Section: A catheter is placed before the surgery to prevent bladder injury and help with the procedure. It will be removed a day or two after your delivery.
4. Passing Gas or Pooping During Delivery
Let’s face it: childbirth is a messy affair. As you’re pushing to bring your baby into the world, the pressure from contractions can sometimes lead to an unexpected and awkward moment. Many women end up passing gas or even having a bowel movement during labor. While this might feel embarrassing, rest assured that it’s completely normal, and the medical team is well accustomed to it.
- Vaginal Birth: The pressure from pushing can trigger an urge to go, and some women inadvertently pass gas or poop. Medical staff are focused on helping you deliver your baby safely, so don’t stress—this is part of the process!
5. Internal Exams
Internal exams are often performed during labor to check your dilation progress. These exams can feel invasive and uncomfortable, especially if you're not prepared for them.
- Vaginal Birth: While it’s necessary to track your dilation and baby's position, the thought of someone checking you down there can feel awkward. Remember to breathe deeply and relax—doctors and nurses are professionals, and they aim to make the process as quick and smooth as possible.
6. The Presence of Male Doctors
For many expecting mothers, having a male doctor during their labor can feel uncomfortable. However, most male doctors are highly experienced and will treat you with the utmost professionalism. They usually won’t perform examinations without a female nurse or midwife present for your comfort.
- Vaginal Birth or C-Section: While it might feel awkward at first, male doctors are trained to perform these procedures with sensitivity. It’s helpful to mentally prepare for this possibility, so you won’t feel uneasy when the time comes.
Final Thoughts
Childbirth is a unique and transformative experience, but it doesn’t come without its fair share of awkward moments. By preparing yourself mentally for these common situations, you can better navigate your labor and delivery experience. Keep in mind that your healthcare team is there to support you, and their focus is on helping you bring your baby into the world safely.
Knowing what to expect during labor can help you feel more at ease and focus on the exciting moments ahead—holding your baby for the first time!
